Prevent Jae from Making the Same Mistake

Jae called me in a panic because she realized she still had feelings for her ex. She didn't know what to do. She started comparing Ron and Oscar her ex. I told her not to make the same mistake I did. Don't date anyone...give yourself time to get on solid ground. If not, you will compare the two guys unfairly and not be able to give yourself 100% emotionally to Ron. I understand making a hasty decision because you are afraid of losing the person, you believe is right for you in the long term. In the end it doesn't work, you end up stressing yourself out, having doubts about your decision and hurting the person you truly care about. You and Ron will be together if you are meant for each other.