Move to NYC

I was all ready to move to NYC. I had a discussion with my Mom about moving. I was looking for jobs in NYC. And now, I feel so silly. Max would see me moving to NYC as another obligation. He is obligated to be nice and neighborly. I was thinking we could move into the two bedroom below him if we got married. All this crazy thinking. Life is so weird. Now not only does Max not know, he does have the desire to know. WHY WHY WHY